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Dublin: 13 °C Saturday 25 May, 2013

How to get to Know Your Neighbour

Community get-together weekend is coming up in July – here are some inventive ideas to get your event started…

Image: Macra na Feirme

DO YOU KNOW your neigbours? That’s a question being asked by youth organisation Macra na Feirme ahead of its Know Your Neighbour weekend.

The initiative, now in its seventh year, wants people to take time out to socialise with their community – you can register an event and download tips, ideas and resources at knowyourneighbour.ie or by texting KYN with your name and address to 51444. There are prizes of a SAORVIEW-approved TV and a One for All voucher worth €150 for the best photos of a Know Your Neighbour event – you can send your event photos to macranafeirme@gmail.com.

There is a serious purpose to the Know Your Neighbour weekend (it’s on 14 and 15 July) -  a survey last year found that only 57 per cent of Irish people know their neigbours well and interact with them on a regular basis. The growing trend of people living alone, coupled with longer life spans, increases the risk of social isolation for some people.

But back to the fun bit… What kind of get-together could you organise with your neigbours? Macra have some practical suggestions here (eg, BBQ, a night at the dogs, local area tidy-up, sports evening, treasure hunt, coffee morning, classes etc.)

Here are a few more extreme suggestions… just for fun. Don’t try all these at home.

How to get to Know Your Neighbour
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  • Have a tomato fight

    Or a pillow fight... or a potato fight... This is a scene from the annual tomato fight in Sutamarchan in Colombia. Pic: AP Photo/Fernando Vergara.
  • Have a Hunger Games tournament...

    ...Just make sure to replace the arrow tips with rubber ones, okay? Pic: TheHungerGamesMovie.com
  • Make a bit of community art

    Get everyone to bring over the books they no longer need. Pile them on top of each other. Ta-daa: A literary tower. (Alternatively, you could do something good with it, and donate them all to charity). Pic: AP Photo/Jacquelyn Martin.
  • Leave your house alarm on

    You'll find on your return that you will be VERY well known among your neighbours. We can't guarantee you'll be well liked though. Pic: Matt Crossick/EMPICS Entertainment/PA Wire.
  • Have an Irish toga party

    Replace togas with thermals for obvious reasons. Pic: AZAdam/Flickr.com
  • Mass parachute jump

    Do it for charity and get all ages involved: after all, if this 97-year-old man, George Moyse, from Bournemouth, England, could do it... Pic: Dave Pratt/PA Wire.

Do you have any sensible ideas for a street party? Let us know in the comments below.

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Comments (24 Comments)

  • Just leave your house alarm going all day. They will soon drop into you for a chat

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  • Know your neighbour, but don’t covet their stuff!

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  • have a beer over the garden wall.

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  • Sorry – I’ll be too busy at the Avoid Your Crazy Neighbour week events.

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  • Street parties are such a good idea. We have an annual BBQ where I live organised by the residents association. It was organised for the first time oddly enough during the big snow two winters ago when myself and a few others started clearing the entrance to the estate and footpaths and got chatting. More and more people began to chip in once they had seen us out of their windows.

    Few of us had ever met before, but decided after working together for a common good that it was about time that we made an effort to get to know each other. Now if there’s ever suspicious activity or someone that needs to be looked in on we know about it.

    It’s such a nice contrast to the place where I used to live. My welcome to the neighbourhood was a note left in lipstick on my windscreen saying parking for residents only!!!

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  • Many people don’t know their neighbours though, especially the likes of students living in accommodation and rarely interacting with the locals etc. I went to a neighbourhood fun day in London, absolutely lovely day and got to met locals who gave me very good advice about my new area! :)

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  • We’d like to think that going to/ holding a Know Your Neighbour event is good fun and a nice, informal way of getting to ‘know your neighbour’! Summer is a great chance to do it since we all like to get out in the lovely weather (ahem…) and everyone tends to be in a better mood. There are also excellent reasons for knowing those who live closest to you- they’re a support in times in need, they can become your friends, you avoid being isolated, they’ll take in the package the postman cant fit in your letterbox and, like Leslie Alan Rock said,- you can ‘have a beer over the garden wall’. We hope you get involved in the spirit of the Know Your Neighbour weekend and hold an event!

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    • I’ve made my best efforts over the years to be friendly with neighbours only to be given an odd look or worse be totally blanked. That’s said I do live in a city in a rental area so that probable has a lot to do with it, the country attitude doesn’t fly in the big smoke so it would seem even in burbs.

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    • The three bed semi attached to my house has around 25 occupants! It would take years to get to know them all!!

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  • I like the second suggestion Susan, Phoenix park could be suitable for it provided Dublin Zoo will allow access to certain animals.

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  • Chinese proverb “Love your neighbours, but don’t pull down the fence.”

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  • I know what you mean- it can difficult in certain areas where there is a lot of rental properties and people havent quite made the area their ‘home’. We actually found in our survey last year that younger people (who had the least amount of interaction with neighbours) were the ones that wanted more interaction! It seems that often people are hesistant to get to know people but we’d suggest that a Know Your Neighbour event could be an ideal opportunity as it’s more relaxed and a chance to socialise. I hope you will consider persevering!

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    • I think people can be quite nervous about making the first step, especially as communities are more fractured than they used to be. In the traditional village setting I grew up in, we all went to one of two schools, our mums and dads knew each other from the school gate and from organising school fundraisers etc. Where I live in a large town on the outskirts of Dublin, there aren’t the same natural opportunities for interaction, so it is up to us to create them. It can be hard to essentially just call in on someone and say I’m your neighbour, how’s things? We perceive ourselves to live in dangerous times and our instinct has become cautious. It’s such a shame, truly no man should be an island unto himself!

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  • Erm … No thanks.

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  • is there a link to macra web page with more info.
    would like to get involved

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  • Not being definitive here or anything but anecdotally, I know it’s a lot more complicated then it used to be.

    http://www.netvideocreator.com/

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  • Jeez this is pathetic that it’s needed. What kind of people don’t know their own neighbours?

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    • Irish people …..

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    • Many people in Dublin do not know their neighbour

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    • Hi P Wurple, I’m originally from a rural area and while most people did know everyone in the local community when I was growing up, that isn’t entirely the case now. I think it can depend on whether you have to commute from the area for work, have children who in a way might connect you to the local community through schools or if you are an older person whose family may have moved away etc. Not being definitive here or anything but anecdotally, I know it’s a lot more complicated then it used to be.
      Mark Larson also has a point – I know from speaking to Macra that they are hoping that people will engage with this initiative, not just in the rural areas with which Macra would traditionally be associated, but also in urban areas.
      Either way, I wish the best of luck to them – I might have to organise one myself (I only know my neighbours to nod to/take in post for!) :)

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    • Jambbie 18/06/12 #

      I say hello to mine and that’s enough. No wysteria lane on my road Ta.

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  • I have absolutely no interest in getting to know my neighbours. Like most people in Ireland I am kept busy with work and my family. Any other spare time is for my activities and close friends.
    It’s simply not possible for me to be running around making friends with neighbours….and I’d say this is the case for most people.

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  • F%<k the neighbours!

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