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The 12 burning questions* of Xmas: Take part in religious service or not?

THE FESTIVE SEASON. A time of joy and goodwill to all… Oh, who are we kidding?

Christmas, New Year and the fallow period in between are ripe for misunderstandings, family tension and silly arguments. We’re here to gauge the temperature on the niggly rows of the season and set them all to rights.

Today: While the timing of the Christmas celebration may have roots in pagan cultures, the name we use for it obviously has a religious connotation with Christian faiths. Do you partake in this? Do you

A. Attend a religious service over Christmas, or…

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B. Don’t attend a religious service over Christmas

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What’s your vote?


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Comments (30 Comments)

  • Johnny Drama 23/12/11 #
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    Im not an atheist,i like to think theres a god & an after life but faith is blind…theres nothing to suggest that god exists apart from ancient stories from back when people were less civilised & more gullable..i think people are more intelligent now & question these beliefs

    Christmas mass & religion was a big part of my life growing up but now that im an adult i have a mind of my own & choose not to attend,with the new generation having no interest in religion at all,i think religion in Ireland will be non existing in 20 years time

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    If your a practicing catholic in every sense of the word fair enough but if your not why bother

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    • Aoife O'Connor 23/12/11 #
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      Tradition, to please family members, because you might think the ceremony is pretty even if you don’t believe in it. I’m sure there are more reasons why people bother.

    • Naomi Watters 23/12/11 #
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      *you’re

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      I disagree with having to please people, and that’s on anything in general, I do things which I like, I’m agnostic and I had a lot of trouble with the old dear over my daughter not making her communion, her attitude is even though she is not a practicing catholic it’s all about the day where as I think you have to have conviction in your faith and yes I do have zero time for al la cart catholics

    • Poppy Socks 23/12/11 #
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      News Flash Martina.

      Ireland has nearly quarter of a million non Catholic Christians.
      Nothing beats a nice rural Church of Ireland service on Christmas morning.

      I only attend Church on Christmas Day and Easter .i don’t see it as Al a Carte. I am Church of Ireland.I do my bit in my own way but on the major religious holidays I like to attend a service or 2.

    • Eoin Gildea 23/12/11 #
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      @Aoife, maybe cultural solidarity is the term you’re searching for. I get my children baptised, knowingly being a hypocrite, but I know for a fact they’ll have better chance if they are.

  • Patrick Sarsfield 23/12/11 #
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    And this a great site for those of you wishing to re-explore your Catholic faith to a greater depth:

    http://www.catholicscomehome.org/

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    • Oaklane1 23/12/11 #
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      Why all the tumbs down?

    • Patrick Sarsfield 23/12/11 #
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      It’s entirely possible these people haven’t yet realized that infinity is a really long time to spend in hell…….however, my more charitable side thinks there’s still a fear of embracing a beautiful faith because of all the negative press in recent years.

      However, as Robin Williams once said ‘what’s right is what’s left if you do everything else wrong.” It’s OK to come back to the faith and, as with many things, second time round can be a lot better especially if you approach it with intellectual vigor

    • Colm Flaherty 23/12/11 #
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      Pat, in fairness a post plugging a website isn’t really welcome in a comments thread, let alone an evangelical plug on a medium where atheists are far more likely to post than theists.

    • William Grogan 23/12/11 #
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      Pat, you can’t be more non-intellectual than being religious. If you engage your brain and objectively analyse religion then you will come to the conclusion that religion is total nonsense. Why are you not say a Hindu?

    • Adrian De Cleir 23/12/11 #
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      @william, im an atheist but saying that you can’t be more non intellectual than being religious is complete nonsense.

      Most atheists are lost in beliefs and assumptions also regarding their very own nature and existence , that doesn’t make them stupid.

      A decent physicist or biologist is far more open to what exactly a religious experience entails, and what we don’t know about certain things than a stubborn atheist ever is.

  • Aoife O'Connor 23/12/11 #
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    I don’t go to any religious service myself, but I can see how people who don’t usually give much thought to religion might enjoy religious services at Christmas if only for the tradition and the nice songs. It’s not that different to keeping up variants on pagan midwinter traditions (like mistletoe and Christmas trees) without associating them with any belief in their original purpose.

    Happy halfway out of the dark all!

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  • Auntie Dote 23/12/11 #
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    No church service. But I do like to play old style religious themed Christmas carols at this time of year.

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  • MaryHelen K 23/12/11 #
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    As a practising catholic, I have to say I really look forward to mass at Christmas. It’s so wonderful to really believe and celebrate the birth of Jesus, it might seem childish but there is great peace in being childlike.

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  • Tricia G 23/12/11 #
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    I celebrate Christmas with my family, no interest in attending any type of religious ceremony.

    I find the whole concept of religion irrational and tradition not a good enough reason to participate.

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  • Biggins31 23/12/11 #
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    No, I don’t.

    For a start I don’t like been preached to by an organisation that is utterly corrupt in Rome.
    An organisation that lies, cheats, is two-faced and still won’t admit all their mis-deeds, report them to state authorities and has more lawyers at declaring bankruptcy so to that it don’t have to pay out to victims, than I have seen many collection plates grasping for more public money!

    To be preached to by them on one of the most special of days?
    They like a Christmas turkey, can get stuffed!

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  • Colm Flaherty 23/12/11 #
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    I’ve always separated the legends of Christianity (which I selectively believe in) from the message of it (which I mostly believe in). I will most likely be going to Benny’s Mass (what I call the language-mangling dog’s dinner the “new” way of saying Mass is) but I judge neither those who go nor those who don’t. I would look down on anyone who calls Mass-goers hypocrites from either side of the God/godless debate. In this nation we are free to do what we wish, and that includes believing & practicing as we wish.

    Every person has a right to decide for themselves what they believe, and it is not for others to decide for them, ridicule them, or judge them.

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  • Shanti Om 23/12/11 #
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    No religious services for me.. Not even a proper traditional one.. Didn’t get to go picking this year :(

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  • Glyn Carragher 23/12/11 #
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    Hey what happened the “I dont know option” ? …….

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  • Stephen Hayden 23/12/11 #
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    Tradition and family pressure is essentially oppression. If you go to mass is should be because you choose to if that is your belief. Fair play to you if that’s your choice. I just choose not to.

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  • Jon Jo Ha 23/12/11 #
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    Each to their own. Also people that explain why you shouldn’t or that religion is just a fairytale do realise that they are preaching?

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  • Graham Mace 23/12/11 #
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    Belief makes no sense at all, if you are looking at it logically.
    Unfortunately, our secular society isn’t making much sense either.
    The only certainty is UN-certainty, so I don’t blame anyone who can find some degree of comfort in a religious faith, even though I cannot.

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  • Paula Doyle 24/12/11 #
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    I attend mass weekly having not been active in the church for nearly 2 years. I believe in God and that’s why I go but would be skeptical about the church and some of its teachings.
    People don’t have to attend church to be good people, better to be nice and kind all the time and not go to mass than a hypocrite who goes once or twice a year and is the opposite to a “good catholic”.

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