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Poll: Do you celebrate Mother’s Day?

Is it just a ‘Hallmark holiday’ or do you mark the day in some way?

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TODAY IS MOTHER’S Day, a day specially designated for expressing thanks to mothers for all they do or have done for us.

We’ve been asked you for the best (or worst) advice your mother ever gave you over on our Open Thread, and we’ve also offered some advice on what not to give your mother as a gift to mark the occasion.

Not an official holiday in any shape or form, some Mother’s Day dissenters say that it’s simply another excuse for card companies to crank out their wares and they put pressure on children to buy gifts.

The same complaints are often raised when Father’s Day comes around (it falls on 17 June this year).

Do you celebrate Mother’s Day in some way?


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Comments (19 Comments)

  • You kind of have to. In fairness, they are awesome.

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  • Mother’s Day is probably less about buying than other holidays with people doing things for Mom that she usually does for the whole family. Children making cards and gifts rather than buying. Today I got a wonderful gift from my son that he made in school.

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  • Now that I have a child of my own I appreciate my mother so much more. We didn’t always see eye to eye, in fact I was a nightmare teen but now that I’m getting older and so is she I take every opportunity I can to let her know how great she is!

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  • My mother Nuala O’Hagan raised 9 of us and recently took on my niece. She is a brilliant Mother and we all love her to bits. Happy Mothers Day Mam !

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  • Not with mam today so we celebrated Friday. My mother is amazing so she deserves to be celebrated!! Card and a small gift and out for dinner

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  • Emma, your right, you only truly appreciate your mother (and your father), when u become a parent yourself, all the worry and strife they go through…and then it’s your turn!! Personally i wouldn’t swap being a parent for anything, and I’m having my mum (87) up for lunch (as usual on a Sunday), she still worries about us even though we’re middle aged!!!

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  • My mother always called this day “Mothering Sunday”. She thought Mother’s Day was invented for commercial reasons by Greeting Card Companies.

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  • South African TV had an interview with the country’s oldest citizen, a woman aged 112. They asked her if she had ever stopped worrying about her children. She replied, “Well, I always used to worry about them, but now they’re all in very nice nursing homes!”. There’s a thought for Mother’s Day – even for the pedants who insist on “Mothering Sunday”. This relates to the days when domestic servants were permitted one Sunday per year to attend services in the church wherever they grew up, their “mother church”. I think I prefer Hallmark making a few bob if it means moving on from this concept!

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  • Do you know what the difference is between mothers day and fathers day?

    About €150

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  • Why celebrate mothers on one particular date which is decided by commercial interests, why not on any other of the 364 days, which you decide yourself.

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  • Having to depend on social and commercial pressure or imagining that what happens on an invented occasion is insecure and irrational. The calendar has not been packed with such events for “thousands of years”. There have always been occasions that marked the natural seasons from a time when humans had little understanding of the earth. Then as now a few used the ignorance of the many to manipulate them. If you need something like mothers day to feel appreciated then you must be failing for the rest of the year. Mothers Day as marketed in Ireland these days is an American invention (1900’s) that hasn’t been around very long. The St. Patrick’s day parade in Dublin was invented by the Protestant Knights of St. Patrick (17 March 1783) to dissipate the power of the Protestant Volunteers. Christmas is the illusion that a Jewish zombie popped into existence 2000 thousand years ago.

    The calendar has turned into an economic drain that sucks money out of peoples pockets whether they can afford it or not. Most of the occasions are invented and based on lies and myths that server a purpose whether it’s herd control or profit.

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  • Its called Mothering Sunday

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    • You’re right, it is Mothering Sunday: it’s a day to celebrate Mothers and other women in our lives who have nurtured and cared for us.

      I celebrate Father’s Day the same way. I spoil my Dad but also thank the men in my life, both family and friends, who have been there for me.

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    • it is. it’s also called Mother’s Day.

      Or rather, there are two things traditionally held on the same day: Mothering Sunday where it’s a Catholic tradition to return to attend Mass at your “mother” church (typically the one in your childhood parish). And then there’s Mother’s Day, which is a secular tradition about showing appreciation for your mother. It’s probably worth distinguishing between the two since if you’re bringing your mother out to lunch but not going to Mass you’re celebrating Mother’s Day rather than Mothering Sunday.

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    • Semantics aside, it’s nice to have a special day to celebrate our mums :-)

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  • MothersDayChristmasDayBirthdays: the calendar has become an economic treadmill that people should just collectively opt out of. Their is nothing auspicious about the arbitrary date of anyone’s birth. No one of any note was born on the 25th of December 2000 years ago. If you have to wait for a single commercialised date to be pressurised into buying some overpriced item when you really don’t want to you’re just following the herd. A parent who demands tribute is probably not that great a parent in the first place.

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    • God some people should keep there comments to them selfs . I’m a mother and very proud of my children .I have three children living in Australia due to this country’s stat and first thing this morning I had calls from all even my grand children were there to wish me happy mothers day and that didn’t cost nothing but ment the world to me I love Mothers Day Christmass day St Patrick Day and any other days that I can be with my children god bless all Mothers you have only One love her while shes living you will miss her when she’s dead ,…..

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    • Perhaps there is no particular reason to participate in this “economic minefield” you speak of, but some of us would simply like to show some appreciation for those we love.. So there’s a specific day assigned to these celebrations – who cares? It’s the intention behind it.. Mothers day is a day for us to remember all that our mums have done for us, same with Fathers day. Xmas is more for kids, and birthdays are just that one day a year every one of us gets to feel special.. Presents aren’t the be all and end all – it’s the appreciation and love shown on the day that matters.

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    • The calendar’s been packed with such events for thousands of years. It’s simply part of human nature to have the next thing to look forward to. It makes people feel connected to the cycles of nature and the world, and helps them get through exactly economic times like this.

      And, yeah, a parent who ‘demands’ tribute might not be that great a parent. But a child who *wants* to do something nice for their parent… that’s a good kid. My son hasn’t been buzzing for weeks with plans to do things for his mum today because she’s a bad parent, but because he’s a great kid.

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